Children now enjoy being with their parents. Most
parents do not have enough time for their children. While the couple was
working, it was difficult for them to make time for the children.
However, the amount
of time spent with a child does not matter as much as the amount of time spent. Spending
a lot of time with children is not important. Instead, it is important how
the parents spend time with their children.
Even so, owning one
is still beyond the reach of the average person. Children follow their
parents' actions, behavior, speech, and so on. In this case, parents need
to take care that if they are behaving badly, it has a direct impact on the
child. For example, rude speech, quarrels, misunderstandings, etc. between
the couple affects the child. Children observe what their parents say, how
they speak, and what they do. Therefore, parents need to be balanced, not
only with their children but also with other members of the household.
In order to teach their
children proper manners and to inculcate good habits in them, it is necessary
for the couple to treat each other in the same way.
Treat each other with respect
If the couple treats
each other with respect, establishes a good relationship, it will have a good
effect on the child. Child also learns to treat their father and mother
with respect. However, if the couple behaves blaming, abusing and
humiliating each other, the child also develops bad speech behavior.
Teach to value money
If you have a habit
of spending more than your income, you will not develop the feeling that you
should save. They do not learn or understand how to be frugal, how to
save. Therefore, it is important to prepare a monthly budget for the home,
prioritizing expenses, so that the child can learn how to spend in the right
place and how to save.
Teach appreciate and respect
When a guest comes to the house, the child learns
how we treat them. If you treat others with respect, your child will learn
to do the same. If a child has a habit of humiliating or abusing others,
even a child cannot treat others well.
Self-esteem should be taught, not ego
Never show your
child pride in your position, money, etc. Hating others as small, poor. Even
a child does not learn good things from the way they treat them self. This
creates ego in them.
Clear and balanced
You have to be able
to have a clear and balanced view on anything. Let's not change our speech
and behavior according to our convenience, it can lead to the development of
bad habits in the child. Because the child learns as you do.
Disciplined lifestyle
There is no end to
eating, sleeping and getting up at home. If you have a habit of coming
home late, organizing a party at any time, such undisciplined lifestyle will
have a profound effect on the child. If the family follows a regular
schedule of sleeping at the right time, getting up at the right time, and
eating at the right time, then the child develops such habits. They follow
a healthy lifestyle throughout their life.
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