Keeping the matter in mind causes anxiety. Feels like depressed. What is your wish what is your interest? what is
your aspiration? what is your happiness? It is appropriate to discuss this issue openly. When we hide something in our heart, it causes
complaints. Complaints
bring strife. Makes
the self’s life sour.
Work place matter in
one place, household matters are in another place, and family children,
relative matter in their own place. While
keeping everything organized, we keep our desires and interests hidden. What is on your mind? What you expecting? Know of other have any idea of it. When we don't express ourselves, how do other
understand the mind? It’s more important when it comes to couple.
The more, couple
shares their feelings with each other, the more they open their minds for each
other, the more transparent the relationship becomes. Transparent relationships are always deep and
cordial. Disbelief,
confusion and grievances do not remain. In this way the relationship becomes better.
Another thing is
that keeping things hidden in the heart hurts oneself. This is the reason behind many mental problems
now. The tendency to not talk
openly, to think too much in the mind, eventually leads to mental problems. So, it is important for the couple to talk
openly.
Of course, everyone
has their own nature. Some
speak too much; some do not speak at all. But there is no need to put a wall between
husband and wife. No
need to keep distance. They
talk openly to each other.
We keep some
interests and desires limited to ourselves. We never talk about what we wanted to do, what
we wanted to be. The
partner does not understand your interest. We keep complaining inside. This leads to a rift in the relationship.
After getting married, we have to agree on some things. Our responsibilities and obligations are added. Time should be given for husband or wife. There are children, they should be raised. Something must be done for the family.
But, while doing all
these things, we do not have to kill our interests and desires. Finding happiness in the family or in the family
does not mean losing it. You
can fulfill your interests and desires at the same time.
Having said that, he
did not take care of such interests which would upset the family balance. Meaningful interest and longing do not break the
rhythm of the family, nor does it put oneself in trouble.
You can talk to your
partner about your interests and desires. You have to say what you are interested in, what
you enjoy doing. Mutual
communication is essential. Only
when we speak our minds openly do our desires, interests and passions.
It is not
appropriate to assume that your partner understands you. Well the partner can understand them-self. But it is best to talk openly.
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