The stage of puberty
and adolescence is considered to be very sensitive. It
is a stage of rapid development and change physically and mentally of child. So, at this time they are emotionally unstable. Age between 9 to 12 years, which is called
pre-adolescence.
This is a situation in which they do not like the full
supervision of their parents, nor are they able to do it themselves. At
this time, it is important for parents to take special care of them.
At this point, they know or understand a lot of things, but they
are unable to tell what is right or wrong. They
cannot decide what to do or not to do. Therefore, the guidance of the guardian is very
important at this stage.
Parents should take care of them, give them guidance. However,
unnecessary monitoring and intervention is not appropriate. They should also be allowed to be independent
and dependent on certain things. They
can understand many things but it is difficult to guide them to the right path
by preaching.
Becoming a role model for the child
Children are more affected by what parents do. That
is, they follow their parents' behavior, work style, conversation, etc. So, it is more effective to present yourself as
a role model than to teach or remind your children.
At the same time, an ideal relationship should be established
with the children. On the one hand, it is necessary to make them
realize their responsibilities and duties at this stage, and on the other hand,
they should be given some independency.
To become self-reliant
When they are young, they don't do everything properly. So,
the parents do their work. From
feeding to dressing. However,
at this age, parents do not need to help them. They are able to do their own thing. Therefore, all their work should be left to them. For example, putting on clothes, polishing
shoes, arranging toys, cleaning your bed, etc.
At this age, it is important to teach them other life skills. For
example, from cleaning the house to working in the kitchen. From gardening to washing their own clothes.
Don't depend on technology
After reaching this stage, children often have the fear of
developing bad behavior. They can be stubborn because they can't be
fooled or intimidated by small things. They may try to force you to do what you want
them to do. Especially
nowadays they can be more involved in mobiles, laptops, etc. Video games can increase their disability.
In such a situation, it is not possible to completely separate
them from technology. However, it is important to set a reasonable
time for its use.
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