Suppose you have a close friend. You get
along very well with your friends. Help each other,
exchanges sorrows, happiness. You express everything to each other.
Is that person is your friend, boyfriend or girlfriend?
If you have a close relationship with a heterosexual friend, we
say that person is your boyfriend or girlfriend.
But, are friends and boyfriends the same? Can't
make friends without having a loving relationship with someone?
Sometimes we are confused about this. Does
the person I consider my friend have any love for me?
What is our attachment to a heterosexual friend? Is
there only pure friendship between us or more? For this we have to be
clear. Because
we also need to be clear about our relationship in order to avoid possible
embarrassment or complications in the future.
If you are worried about this, wait a while and evaluate your
feelings and find out how deep it is. Only
then can you know if the relationship is just a friend or something more than a
friend. Are
there any ways you can tell the difference between love and friendship? So that you don't have
to lose your best friend by thinking of love.
To like or agree
A lot of things are exchanged about a friend. If
they like, their thoughts tend to be the same. But this does not happen
in love. If
you are in love with someone then the thoughts and mind tend to be excessive. Who are attracting each
other. And, you think too much
about each other.
Depth of emotion
There are some things that you can feel equally in both your
friend and boy/girlfriend. But, remember how deep
and how often you are feeling that.
That way you know if that person is your friend or is in love. So,
take some time to evaluate your feelings.
Way of talking
The way you talk to your friend and the way you talk to your
boyfriend / girlfriend are also different. We
talk to our friends in a very normal way. They also call each
other by different nicknames. When you talk to someone you love, your every
movement is different.
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