More complaining habits affect
our personality.
There is a tendency to
complain. There is something wrong with everything. Often we are
expressing our grievances to others. There are several ways to express a complaint. Like crying, knocking, arguing, screaming all
these ways reflect negativity. The
tendency to complain is not good in itself. The more we complain, the more we develop ultimately, our complain habit.
In fact, complaint is
not a solution. When you complain about
something, it does not solve your problem rather it has side effects.
More complaining habits affect our personality. There
are some things that you are not satisfied with. Some things just don't seem right to you. However, there are other ways to respond. You don't have to complain. For example, you are being wronged in the office. You are having an emotional upset at your
workplace. This
is not to say that they must endure. You have to raise your voice against these
things. Have
to fight Proper
and logical methods must be followed. But, complaining does not eliminate the
mistreatment and discrimination you have.
In
some cases, while you are complaining repeatedly, the attitude of others toward
you can be bad. They will understand that
you are a person with a dissatisfied mindset. You are not satisfied with anything. And, it is your habit to complain. When
complaining, it really transforms into a habit. So this kind of tendency can cause us problems.
Complaints can usually
be one way to manage our stress. We
complain about something we are not satisfied with. The inner goal of complaining is to get the help
of others. When
complaining, we make ourselves suffer. In fact, complaining is also a weak defense of
self-defense. Many
of us cannot admit that we have made a mistake. We too have some weaknesses. By complaining, we find a good excuse to deny
our wrongdoing.
As the tendency to
complain develops, one also loses confidence. Can't respond immediately to anything.
Can't say no to things that don't make you happy. It can cause them anxiety, stress or depression.
Complaining habits make people stressful. Negative emotions continue to grow. Pessimistic thinking develops.
Complaining habits can have a
detrimental effect on a part of our brain, which is linked to memory. The brain and body are inter-connected; the body
can withstand stress for up . But if excessive it hurts the body. It kills our happiness and excitement.
Thus,
the habit of complaining eventually destroys oneself. Complaining is not a solution.
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