After all, what is the benefit? What is the purpose of such a thing?
It is rare to talk about person good
side, success, progress, ability, etc. Instead, weak side is dug, failures are discussed, and
shortcomings are debated. Tends to say bad things to someone in his/her
absence. It is a personal instinct. Often people have this kind of
tendency. When friends, relatives, co-workers meet, they talk to each
other about the person who has not been present.
When we are cutting down on what
others say, does person aim to improve on those things? Or does person will expose faults?
There is usually no meaning and
benefit to cutting off others. But we have a tendency to cut down on others. This is a
psychological problem. Often, if a person finds pleasure in the weaknesses,
negatives of others, then it is psychological problem. people try to make
themselves look good by discussing the faults of others. People enjoy it by digging into
others' faults, discussing weaknesses, when there is jealousy, anger toward
that person. This means that people talk to others about the frustration lost
in their hearts.
Talking negatively to others leads
people to the illusion that they are good. This delusion satisfies him momentarily. We use a lot of energy
to discover the smallest mistakes, weaknesses of others. Get excited What are your weaknesses? What's wrong with others? What are worst aspects? We are, of course, interested in such
matters.
This is not only wrong, but also
illegal and uncivilized. We do not know what the person is in that situation .What is
he/she doing, why? We are just having fun talking about him/her for our enjoyment. It is also against etiquette.
As we think, we have a right to our
personal life. In the same way, we do not have the right to misinterpret and
propagate wrongly about others' private lives. We forget our boundaries, our duties,
our dignity, and we cut our minds off others. If any of our actions offend the
dignity, independence, dignity of others, then it is a crime. Is a sin. Is inhumane.
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